It seems that the reply was a rambling, disjointed, grammatical mess, and how she was hurt by the last mail, come on the only thing that hurt her would have been Christina finding out that she was lying about paying child support, anything else she had precipitated by saying "let's talk" and meeting my other civil replies and offers to work with her with dead silence. Once more she was trying to be the victim, trying to make me look like an ogre, especially to our child, the one good thing was as I pointed out to my daughter was that her mail and all of my other replies were in that last email, so she could see I was willing to work with the ex but she didn't even want to talk to me. *sigh* I replied that I didn't appreciate her exaggerating (I avoided using the term out right lying) to our daughter about the so-called ban, comparing her not having keys to my house to the fact that I don't have keys to her apartment, and that the money she owed me wasn't the important thing, it seems she missed the whole point of my last mail, even though I had every right to sick legal dogs on her I was asking for the conversation she requested, before I did anything. I expressed a concern for her mental state based on what she said and how it was said (expecting sympathy from people who you refuse to let them know there's an problem in your life, not particularly stable persons reasoning), I felt both of us needed some form of therapy, even letting her in on the fact that I was looking into such for myself. I also hinted at the chilling statement made by my daughter about "when she finds out who's lying to her...", that doesn't worry me since I spilled my guts to her, but the last thing I want would be for the ex to screw up her relationship with our child by her finding out on her own what the ex was up to.
Well here it is 3 days after I sent the reply no response, and she won't answer her phone, typical.